jillybean307 said:Hehehe, it's funny that you assumed it was a "he". The professor was a woman. The worse part was that she had a kid-I think she blamed her daughter for her not getting tenure or something like that actually.
I agree that both careers and SAHM are important, but I think it's dangerous for a woman to think she can changed her SO's opinion after they get married. My aunt tried that and it ended in disaster.
There are just some people that shouldn't have kids... she sounds like one of them! What is a woman supposed to do if she gets divorced and has to go back to work... I can't believe any teacher would be allowed to repeatedly tell students that! There are lots of women that don't want kids, one of my best friends has her own business, her bf is very successful, they'd rather travel than be tied down... and then I have another friend who is so excited to have kids. I think the people that want the same things have to find each other to be happy... obviously that guy isn't going to want to be with someone who wants to stay home with kids and the woman who's career is super important to her isn't going to marry a man who wants a stay at home wife.