Any suggestions? I love my Philip Lim 3.1 Pashli, but now I want a fab cross-body bag that I can kind of abuse and it will still be awesome! Not so extravagant that I will feel badly about carrying it to death. (I'm not gentle on my accessories.) Plus, it must fit my ipad and small laptop. I was thinking of an LV Menilmontant, but I'm not sure I'm a monogram kind of girl. Help!