I so agree with Shyloo, but I can empathize with your frustration too. I dated this guy that I was incredibly passionate about. He also had this thing where his previous relationships ended because he couldn't commit. Did I see that as a warning sign? No, I thought it was because of the women he was with.
But you and I (and everyone else) knows the truth. The truth was that he just didn't want to be married to you right now. And that he was willing to sacrifice the entire relationship because of this. Should it bother you? Yes. Should you confront him about it? Only if you think that it will help you get over the fact. My ex called me a while after he wreaked havoc on my life (I never gave him an ultimatum but he did string me along). He wanted to come back, then and there I had the opportunity to say everything I ever wanted but for me, it was pointless. Why should you spend any more energy on him? I would say let it go. Even though it hurts, let it go. If confronting him will help you let go, then only then should you do it. But someone who strings you along and allows you to invest so much of your time and energy into him when he's not willing to reciprocate is not worthy of your love.
I met my husband when I was 28. We didn't marry until 2 years later. The loser above was the best thing that happened to me in the sense that once I met my loving PHH, I recognized him for the wonderful man that he is. Sometimes, it's the painful experiences that allow us to see with clearer vision.
Hang in there and keep us posted! :BIG HUG:
But you and I (and everyone else) knows the truth. The truth was that he just didn't want to be married to you right now. And that he was willing to sacrifice the entire relationship because of this. Should it bother you? Yes. Should you confront him about it? Only if you think that it will help you get over the fact. My ex called me a while after he wreaked havoc on my life (I never gave him an ultimatum but he did string me along). He wanted to come back, then and there I had the opportunity to say everything I ever wanted but for me, it was pointless. Why should you spend any more energy on him? I would say let it go. Even though it hurts, let it go. If confronting him will help you let go, then only then should you do it. But someone who strings you along and allows you to invest so much of your time and energy into him when he's not willing to reciprocate is not worthy of your love.
I met my husband when I was 28. We didn't marry until 2 years later. The loser above was the best thing that happened to me in the sense that once I met my loving PHH, I recognized him for the wonderful man that he is. Sometimes, it's the painful experiences that allow us to see with clearer vision.
Hang in there and keep us posted! :BIG HUG: