This is an update on the thread that I started asking everyone if a non-paying bidder, with no communication, can neg. me after I do a Second Chance offer on the item. I was forced to open an "Unpaid Item dispute" with eBay. Well, to my surprise, I received a Paypal payment today, but not from my buyer... it was from another woman. I also received a separate eBay email from this woman who paid. She told me that her friend (my buyer) had died suddenly the day after the auction ended. No one had thought about this woman's eBay account, but when they remembered, the friend spoke to the husband and he wanted to buy the necklace, so the friend used her Paypal account to do so. I sent the necklace today, to my buyer's address... so everything was the exact same, except that the payment came from someone else. I just knew something was wrong. A woman with over 500 perfect feedback was not the type of person to ignore an auction. When I checked on her recent purchases, I could see she had the same taste as me and I felt I kind of knew her a little bit... (Sounds silly, I know... ) Now I have to think of something to say to the woman who paid... when I tell her that I shipped the necklace as per the husbands wishes. Any suggestions? I can't tell you how sad this makes me.