sorry this is long, but i'm really mad...i had work last night. i slept at 10:30 this morning because i had things to do, then around 1:30 my real estate agent called me up and told me that the sellers got a higher offer for the condo (they had agreed to my offer last thursday). my real estate agent said that they got an offer for a higher price, with a higher downpayment, and they can close earlier. so i said ok, i'll think about what i want to do. i spoke with my parents...i decided to stick with my offer, because personally...i'm getting a bad feeling about this. and from my other post about this, everyone said that they always had everything in writing. so i just got off the phone with him and i asked him if he ever had any of that in writing. he said that everything was done verbally and when i told him that in the future i want all the offers/counteroffers to be in writing, he told me that most of these transactions are done verbally, because the negotiations can move quickly...which i think is bull, because everyone here said that their real estate agents never even considered doing their negotiations verbally. anyway, i'm just really pissed off because i paid $1000 last week for the downpayment, then when i did all my mortgage stuff, i gave another check for almost $3000. plus, he never even gave me the analysis so that i could compare how much condos were selling in the area. he only told me "they're going for about $230-250,000." i'm so mad...i think i'm going to go with another agent, but i'm going through them to get my mortgage, and i locked in at a really good rate (5.5%). that's the only reason why i'm reluctant to go with another real estate agent. *sigh* does anyone know any good real estate agents in central nj? please pm me if you do...i'm *frustrated*. plus, i only had 3 hours of sleep this afternoon and i have work again tonight...i couldn't fall asleep anymore after i spoke to him...