Fur babies are SO worth it. With the few friends I have that are into bags, I joke that I wear my exotic Birkin on a leash.Big congrats on your Lumi. It's beautiful and it sounds like it will be the perfect handbag for you. I know it's $$$$ but it will be worth it.
How wonderful of DH's parents to help with this. Your situation sounds just like mine - $6k for doggie ICU - been there. DH wanting to invest $ all the time - check.
Somehow, I still manage to feed my LV addiction.
On one hand, I wish my husband wasn't so frugal all the time (he once spent 30 minutes trying to find a street parking space because he didn't want to tip complimentary valet) but on the other hand, I know that we will retire well and we still have more luxuries than the average American. I don't have a massive collection, but I think what I have is very nice!