You seem indecisive. I feel like I see your posts every day, on here or on Facebook.
I think it’s sometimes important to get other people’s feedback and suggestions. But I also feel like if you have to constantly rely on other people’s opinions to make a decision, then it’s a sign that you should hold off.
At the end of the day, if you’re trying to find reasons why you shouldn’t like a certain piece or brand, then don’t buy it. I understand that $2,000 is a significant amount of money, but luxury is by definition a non-necessity. Jewelry even more so. At least shoes and bags can provide some basic functionality. There will never be a way to rationalize buying a VCA Alhambra pendant, when it doesn’t do anything to increase your quality of life.
Also, in your case, you seem to only want to buy one pendant from VCA and be done. If you’re looking for “the one” necklace, then you need to be much more sure of your purchase. And I don’t mean that in terms of outside validation. I mean that you need to introspect and understand what you’re looking for in a necklace.
Deciding between a sweet or vintage size is pretty common, I can admit. But deciding between a single-motif pendant vs a ten-motif necklace is a very different purchase, just on a rudimental level. And deciding between carnelian, onyx, mother-of-pearl, blue agate, tiger’s eye, guilloche, and hammered is just way too expansive. Unless you’re trying to collect all the colors, it doesn’t make much sense why you wouldn’t know which version you prefer.
Anyway, my advice is to just not look at anything Van Cleef for a few weeks or months. Go explore other brands. See what else is out there. It doesn’t matter if everyone else loves XYZ brand, jewelry is an emotional purchase. You need to love it yourself. Sometimes, I’ll fall into a cycle where I’ll suddenly be into a brand that I really had no interest in before (for instance, the Dior Celeste pendant). But if I take an extended break, I’ll find that I won’t remain connected with the brand anymore. See how you feel about VCA after taking a break.