I just have to vent My boyfriend and I just moved into a new condo. That should be great, but it did come with the added "bonus" of his brother moving in as well. This is because his brother who lived in another state got kicked out of school, thus leaving him a bit homeless. So my boyfriend did the honorable thing of taking his brother in, despite this being our first place and is supposed to be our time to be together. Let me mention here that I was ALL FOR his brother moving in, and even pushed for it because I thought it was the right thing to do...family first. So anyway during the time hes been here, which is now almost 3 months...I have let him use my macbookPRO, given him one of my cell phones to use (I pay the bill + all his extra crap), and buy him food more than a few times a week because he recently got fired from the job...that I basically got him through connections. Our new washer dryer set hasn't gotten here, which I was fine with since we live in an "upscale" building and I thought my laundry would be fine if I took it down to the community washer/dryer room. But then the first time I took laundry down, and also the first time I've EVER done laundry in my life, someone stole a couple of pieces from the dryer. I haven't trusted clothing down there ever since. So the other day he was saying he doesnt have money for the laundry (big surprise). I told him I'd be happy to give him the money as long as he washed some pieces for me and sat down there and watched it while it dried...which he had no problem with. Today he says hes going to do the laundry and then I just double check if hes going to wait and he says no I was like well you said you would, and he got all mad thinking I'm trying to manipulate him Its not a big deal but I feel so taken advantage of:cry: And I also feel he is being ungrateful! Had to vent, am I in the wrong? Was I being manipulative? Maybe I just need an outside perspective.