Hi gabes_mommy,
It may be too late now to recall the package, but it may all work out in the end anyway. I do hope so. In the future, if you ever need to recall a Priority package, you can. I emailed you the form earlier in the day. Keep it on file and for anyone else, you can locate the form at this address:
http://www.usps.com/forms/_pdf/ps1509.pdf. It's best to fill it out and take it to your Post Office. Ask them to fax it to the buyer's post office. Also, ask them to call. . My post office has done it for me a couple of times. Once for a very expensive bag I shipped right away and it turned out to be a counterfeit money order. Lesson learned and I now wait now before I ship even money orders and cashiers checks, (unless they are from a repeat customer.)
I've sold over 16,000 items on Ebay and in 2005 I stopped accepting payment via PayPal if the user needs the item shipped to any other than their confirmed PayPal address. I clearly state my policy upfront in my listings and my preferences in PayPal are set to not accept any payments from unconfirmed addresses.
If you don't want to ship to unconfirmed addresses, it's best to write a short statement regarding your policy and insert it into every listing. It will save a lot aggravation on both ends. Feel free to use mine or modify it, but it explains upfront so there is no misunderstanding. (8.8 bidders out of 10 read a listing) so you may still get some that try and pay without a confirmed address, but it does help.
PayPal Paying customers please note that I can ship only to your PayPal confirmed address on our PayPal payment receipt. That means that your credit card billing address on file with PayPal must be the address to which your item will be shipped. Sorry, no exceptions. If you need your item shipped to any other address, you can send a money order to the address on your invoice.
THIS IS FOR YOUR PROTECTION AS WELL AS OURS. IF YOU HAVE ANY QUESTIONS REGARDING PAYPAL'S SELLER OR BUYER PROTECTION POLICY, YOU MAY CALL THEM.
PayPal Customer Service Agents are available to help you during the following times: 4:00 AM PDT to 10:00 PM PDT Monday through Friday, 6:00 AM PDT to 8:00 PM PDT on Saturday and Sunday
1-402-935-2050 a U.S. telephone number