I don't understand how she would sit there and let her husband buy items but not buy glasses for her vision. I honestly believe that (1) your friend isn't telling the entire story or (2) there is something else that may be preventing your friend from going to the eye doctor.
Shame on HER for allowing him to get away with that! People will only walk on you if you give them permission!
Does she want to leave her husband? Is she afraid of losing her kid or not wanting to be a "failure" in her family's eyes since they opposed the marriage in the first place? .
Agreed. By taking her paycheck, he is ensuring that she entirely at his mercy. Instead of handing over her check, she needs to hand him divorce papers.I feel for your friend, but she is in an abusive relationship. Even if he never strikes her, the control issues alone qualify as abuse. She needs to get help, get out and perhaps see if she can repair ties with her family.