I need some help. I bought this bag but I'm not sure I'm in LoVe with it. I'm turning 40, and want a bag I'll be able to wear for years to come. It's obviously not an every day bag, but does it look too young? Like something a teenager would wear? It's super limited, which I like. I love having bags that you don't see around every corner. I'm just not sure if the flames look cheesy (for lack of a better word) and make the bag look cheap vs chic. Thoughts?