I agree with your questions. Mom bag? Maybe, a chic tote, definitely. I tried on the Tuileries six months ago in the boutique and I still love it today. I'm 5'6" and next week I'll be trying it on again and playing with the handle/shoulder drop against my waist. I have two kids and I can't believe how much stuff I have to bring around with me. It's worse in the winter time. Last time I tried it on I had just the bare a minimum of things in the bag. It had the loveliest slouch and squishiness to the canvas shape. Can't wait to try it on again.