A very dear friend, who I've known for 20 years, is graduating with her masters in nursing at the end of this month. I've been agonizing over what to get her. Cash seems a little, well cold and temporary. She has a lot of jewelry so I was thinking a Hermes scarf might be just the thing. The problem is her style is so different from mine that I just don't know which one to pick out. Can you ladies help me? Please? I know she likes the Gucci flora scarf, but I think a Hermes scarf would be more special. She tends to wear casual chic clothes, sort of classic tailored. Think loafers or mules (never sneakers), pressed button downed shirts, skirts usually but sometimes jeans and shorts in the summer, sometimes dresses with heels. For colors she wears jeans but alot of pastels (I think we've lived apart for awhile), black more at night, khaki colored shirts or pants. She is rather pale, with blue eyes, and big dark blonde hair. I'm at a total loss here on which scarf would be a good starter. I don't think this is something that she'd buy herself - she loves the sale rack - but she started wearing little scarves due to my influence, but I just know that once she tries a big scarf it will be so her and just add to her classy look. Also I'd like to pick out one from a store in DC or NYC with a good return policy, just in case, but I'm not sure who carry Hermes in NYC. I know that Neimans does here in DC. I have no idea what the policy at Hermes is - I guess I could take a credit and give her cash if she didn't like it. HELP!!