OMGGGGG this information was so incredibly amazing and helpful! If you happen upon the tour guides info I would greatly appreciate it. For right now we do plan to stay in Rome (although I want to see so many cities around Italy) but will definitely reach out of there changes! THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YIU soooo much for this! I’m so excited about the Vatican tour I can’t even contain it! My oldest has his first communion May 2024, so he’s very excited , and he will be alter serving as he prepares for confirmation , I feel the Vatican tour will boost his excitement . I really appreciate all of your suggestions we will be implementing all of them
You're very welcome! It sounds like your oldest is the same age my daughter was when we went last year--she received first communion just a couple of weeks ago. My daughter is a pretty curious kid, but I was still surprised by how attentive and engaged she was the whole time we were there. She quietly sat with me in awe for 20 minutes in the Sistine Chapel, pointing things out, and filing away questions and observations that she couldn't wait to talk about when we left and could discuss it.
You also must see Mary Major Basilica (Basilica Papale di Santa Maria Maggiore). It's one of only 4 major basilicas in the world. All 4 are in Rome, but we didn't get to the other 3. Mary Major was a short walk from our hotel, and we only had 3 days in Rome.
The Colosseum is, of course, a great spot. We didn't do a tour, but only walked around it and took pictures. We were warned that the tour wasn't worth it. Maybe it is if you're going to have more time in the city. Visit the Trevi fountain as early in the morning as you can get there. It gets crazy and was the most crowded spot in the city we experienced, so try to get there before the crowds.
Something practical to just be aware of, especially with little ones who may necessitate having earlier dinners...many of the restaurants close for a few hours in the afternoon. The touristy ones stay open all day, and may not offer the best food Rome has to offer, but it will still be better than any Italian restaurant you've been to in the states. And a general travel tip--ask your taxi driver for recommendations. Anywhere we go, we ask our taxi drivers where they go to eat. It's a great way to find local spots off the tourist trail.
My last piece of advice is to allow yourself to just wander around "Old Rome"--the Renaissance center of the city--where the Trevi Fountain, the Pantheon, the Spanish Steps all are. It's small and easy to navigate and you'll make some incredible discoveries. And eat all the things. I have a gluten sensitivity, but allowed myself to enjoy the pasta and bread and was shocked to discover it didn't affect me like it does here in the US. Like Alienza said above--the ingredients are the freshest and everything is much less processed than in the US, which makes a huge difference.
No, Rome isn't the cleanest place I've ever been. But, it's a city that, despite its antiquity and vibrant tourism, is still a modern location for commerce. People live and work there, so there are buses and traffic and even graffiti. I didn't find it any dirtier than most major cities, like NYC, Chicago, New Orleans, or London.
What I loved about Rome was the juxtaposition of modern life with all the ruins and antiquity. I loved Florence, but for different reasons. Although Florence is steeped in the same history, it's a city that felt like it's embraced tourism so much that the history exists for purposes of serving that tourism. So, there was something artificial (?) or superficial (?) feeling about the city. Like the history would no longer exist if the tourists weren't there to witness it. But Rome is timeless. Its antiquity is part of it's much broader character. It feels like it exists for itself, regardless of whether tourists care to experience its treasures. Something about that energy spoke to my soul.
I could go on and on.... I'll see if I can dig up that tour guide's card and will share her info with those of you who asked for it here.