mj stam is heavy... i have black stam and used to have a white patent stam.. its like weighlifting everytime i take them out... more dressed up / conservative look, while bbags can be both down-to-earth & dressy
bbags are so much lighter, leather is gorgeous but fragile...
but then again, stam is low maintenance but the leather arent smooshy so you cant enjoy stroking it like a bbag...