I'm not a mom but use the totally, it fits my lifestyle & how i dress...
simply ignore negative comments from others esp. if they don't look fashionable, lol.
Ya, don't let other's opinion take over your own thoughts. Dress and wear at your comfort. At the end of the day the bag is yours and you would have to love it.
That's rubbish! I have the totally PM in damier azur and Im 23 years old! It looks great! Plus, it has the zips on top that the neverfull doesn't and you can use it for school and travel etc! LOL!