Hi there! I am looking at the Ella bag. I’m currently carrying a LV NV GM but am wanting to put it up and let it rest. I am wanting a satchel type bag but love the look of the Ella. I am snooty by any means lol but do you find the Ella nylon looks a little “flimsy” and not “lady like”? I don’t know what I’m trying to say lol! I want the large size. Does it get more of a structured look when you fill it up? I don’t want it to look flimsy. I’m two hours for any TB retailer