In my opinion, it's stunning! Nothing about it seems 'old ladyish'. The color is perfect for dressing up or down. If you're not thrilled though, I wouldn't keep it (well, I would keep it myself!), but you shouldn't. That's a lot of money to spend on a bag that doesn't make your heart patter. I think the decision needs to be yours, everyone has different tastes, but if you really want my opinion, it looks great on you!