My bf and I were just bickering over this, so I thought I'd ask you ladies for your opinion. I have a very close friend who I've known for 10+ years. Sweetest woman ever, I adore her. The thing is-she has a moustache. I'm so used to it, I don't notice it anymore, but my bf always refers to her as 'the chick with a moustache.' so clearly other people notice it. He says that if I were a true friend, I'd (politely) say something to her about it, or get her a gift certificate to a salon that does waxing. He feels it's something that's easy to fix, and would drastically improve her appearance. My opinion on it is- she has a boyfriend, if he doesn't care, why should I? So which one of us is right? Is there any polite way of bringing something like facial hair or body odor (not her, but I had a friend in college who I guess didn't wear deodorant all the time) up to a friend without completely destroying a friendship?