Okay, so this is still about my international disaster. I just got an email from Paypal, and basically it's telling me I'm screwed. So she's keeping my bag and getting a $500 (approximate) refund. My new dilema is, should I leave her negative feedback when I know she will leave me a neg in retaliation? It will be my third in about 7 years. I now have 1240 positives. Both negs were over 4 years ago with one being retalitory from non-paying bidder. Should I suck it up and take another so I can warn other sellers?Oops, almost forgot. If do leave her a neg, any ideas on how to convey what she did in the short sentence you are allowed?