I understand, I had a black City that I loved so much but also used so much that it ended up being very used. Too used. I dreamed of a black City with sturdier leather. So I was lucky enough to find a Holiday Hamilton bag (the leather on these are similar but not completely the same as on the Metal Edge bags. The Hamilton leather is slightly softer etc.). It is perfect but I'll admit that the first time I carried it, it didn't completely have that "Bal-feel", kwim? Kinda like the new iPhone6, it's fab but it doesn't completely have that Apple-feel because of the softer edges.
However, I love both my bag and my new phone A LOT
My Hamilton is the perfect Bal for me in that it is a black City but it feels so much sturdier than the regular leather (chevre and agneau alike).
All that said, I am not sure how I would feel if this was my first and only Bal but fortunately it isn't. I still have other Bal's with the regular leather that I can carry for that true slouchy Bal-feel.
One more thing, the Hamilton leather will get softer with use and I suspect, so will the leather on the Metal Edge bags.
Of course, you need to like the Metal Edge on those bags too. I don't and that's why I looked for a Hamilton instead but if you do like it and aslo like the leather then I'd say, you should just enjoy your bag
If you're not completely in love with the Metal Edge features, then try to look for a Hamilton instead. It's not easy but they do pop up every now and then. Again, I love mine!