Just got mine today! Yippee! Anyway, I ordered and had it sent and never tried it in person. It is pretty stiff. I am not sure I like the flat bottom. I guess I didn't realize it was flat on the bottom - not sure WHY I didn't realize that! I like the bag, but I am kind of unsure...It seems so stiff. I have the Beverly clutch and it is so much softer. Will the Tivoli soften up? Not sure if I should keep it. I lusted after this bag for 2 months and now I am unsure. Any PM owners want to weigh in?