OH MY!! This is super exciting news!! Congrats on the 10th anniversary and i wish many more years of happiness to come. I am a novo owner, recent to be exact and so luck to be, and i feel like the ring makes a big statement and is quite flashy in it's own unique and subtle ways. Though the diamonds on the band are quite small, they have A LOT of fire in them and i always notice it's like a mass of light coming from my hand when i'm in the sunlight or under certain types of lighting. What i'm trying to say is that not only the center cushion stone gets noticed, but the entire ring is a statement. For me, i think it's the perfect ring to wear every day and i'm considered a pretty down to earth kind of person - no way too fancy imo. Also, i don't think i'd ever stop wearing this precious piece, or ever bring myself to upgrade it b/c it's the perfect size and it's perfect in ever way - let alone take it off b/c, heck, i saw the certificate and it costs just as much as a car!! Here's the link to the thread i created:
http://forum.purseblog.com/the-jewelry-box/he-proposed-to-me-with-tiffany-e-ring-449730.html DF asked me to choose between this and the classic Tiffany setting b/c he needed that extra help
and this totally won me over b/c it's sophisticated and has a modern yet classic twist. If you want to go for something timeless maybe consider the classic setting?
I think the Lucida design is also such a simple and chic design. Because you are the only one that knows yourself very well, and just as you have already said, yes it's a cool looking ring but is it really worth it if you're already having doubts about liking it down the road? If you're more drawn to the novo design, i say go with your first gut instinct. If you haven't yet, get yourself to try it on at the store and see for yourself that it's not as fancy as it looks online.
So, even though i'm a novo owner, i'm not exactly going to encourage you to get one but i'm just pointing some things out for you to consider based on what you wrote in your post
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