I do not eat lobster or foie gras, for various reasons. (And since we're talking about cruel food, I'm going to throw veal in there, too.)
I am SO pleased my parents won't be eating foie gras anymore! (They gave that up when they gave up veal!)
And I'm glad they figured it out on their own. (Well, they did know how I felt about it but I didn't want to be one of those people that kept bringing it up.)
Not all pate is cruelly made. I posted this in another thread, and thought I'd reiterate here. (I got this from a cooking article)
Today, the terms pâté and terrine are often used interchangeably. Pâté is simply a mixture of seasoned ground seafood, poultry, meat or vegetables, and often a combination of several different base ingredients.
Beef, pork, liver, ham, seafood, wild game, poultry, and vegetables are all candidates for pâté. The grind can be smooth and creamy or on the chunky side. It may be served hot or cold, molded or unmolded.
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http://homecooking.about.com/od/spec...patewhatis.htm)
Maybe just avoid the ones marked liver pate, as those animals were treated the same way as geese are.
As for the lobster, I've heard about the 'squealing' being actually gases escaping, but it's still the idea of throwing a live animal into a boiling pot of water.
(And even without the boiling alive thing, to me, lobsters are like the cockroaches of the sea.)