Allan, I am so impressed with how kind, patient, and forgiving you are. You have bent over backwards to accommodate Hermes. I wish that Hermes would have done more to accommodate you.
I feel sad about the scotch tape, etc. It sounds like the initial presentation was not as special as what you deserved after such a long wait. and I wish the bag could have had the contrast stitching that you requested. But on the bright side, your current stitching will show dirt less.
You have such a kind attitude about the whole incident. I do feel that you deserved more accommodation, but the bag is still beautiful.