I really can't get to a store to try one on since Chicago is 90 miles away And I'm debating buying a First. I have a feeling it won't be a problem holding everything...but I'm afraid I'll look like a dork wearing it. I'm 5'5 and a US size 6-8....so not tiny at all. I looked through the reference thread for pics and mostly saw tiny tiny gals wearing the first. Can someone post pics of someone around my size wearing one? Especially on the shoulder (that is my biggest worry that my arms are too big for it)! TIA!!