question about the wear on different colors. i have a rouge h togo, and the corners show minute (like, eye right up to the leather to see it) wear - naturally, because i use it constantly and am in love... what what i talking about? oh, right, so the corners on togo rouge h seem (so far) to darken - again, just a teeny, tiny no-complaints-here bit. now a friend has a beautiful bag in etoupe, and her corners do the oppposite, they seem to lighten. is it that she's rubbing against sandpaper and i'm setting mine in mud, or do darker leathers darken and lighter leathers lighten???