I have noticed lately a few attractive mid-age(?) women wearing teeny diamond rings. The rings were so beautiful and really stood out. IMO, they made more of a statement cause they clearly weren't the 1 carat plus that I'm accustomed to seeing. These women have college age children, nice cars and bags, and travel a lot. So I bet they can upgrade but for whatever reason choose not to. I think it is great and something should be said for the beautiful itty-bitty diamonds.
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I like small and big diamonds, there is a place for everything depending on you type. I know sporty girls who rock small ones and they look fab and feminine while been super active. I particularly like my friend's Dior Mimi oui ring. Very delicate, affordable (350 euros, yellow gold and round cut 0.045ct diamond), and chic. She will not upgrade for her own reasons, she doesn't think bling is a good investment to begin with, and she has very few pieces, but all of them tasteful.
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I agree that a smaller, simpler ring sometimes makes a bigger impact that a larger one. I think we get so used to see a certain style that when I see something simple, smaller or obviously older it is really special.
I am always looking at rings on the ladies that come into the shop and so many look the same.
I am always looking at rings on the ladies that come into the shop and so many look the same.
I would never trade my e-ring,probably tiny to many of you. (.38 carat).
Myhusband would not want me to, either.
It was big when I got it--diamonds were very pricey in 1982. There was a bubble, like there recently was with real estate.
But the size was never the point.
Hubby has done well over the years and we have no debt at all, and I've been given some additional jewelry,but it has to be in addition, not in place of.
We spent some decent money on some of it. However, i find I prefer to shop at the local pawn shop now. The deals are so good. I've always been the kind of person that if I can get the exact same thing for way less money,I'd rather do that. I'm also from a very poor country originally and when I waste money can't help thinking, those $$$ could help some kid go toschool there,orhave something to eat--I do love my jewelry but I will save the $$$ by preference and send the money back.
Myhusband would not want me to, either.
It was big when I got it--diamonds were very pricey in 1982. There was a bubble, like there recently was with real estate.
But the size was never the point.
Hubby has done well over the years and we have no debt at all, and I've been given some additional jewelry,but it has to be in addition, not in place of.
We spent some decent money on some of it. However, i find I prefer to shop at the local pawn shop now. The deals are so good. I've always been the kind of person that if I can get the exact same thing for way less money,I'd rather do that. I'm also from a very poor country originally and when I waste money can't help thinking, those $$$ could help some kid go toschool there,orhave something to eat--I do love my jewelry but I will save the $$$ by preference and send the money back.
Expensive watches or jewerlies do not make people look attractive. Attractive people are attractive without blings! (The way you dress might be more important IMHO.) When I see a lady who wears a big/huge diamond ring, I only think,"Oh! this lady must like diamonds. Me, too!!" That's all.
Expensive watches or jewerlies do not make people look attractive. Attractive people are attractive without blings! (The way you dress might be more important IMHO.) When I see a lady who wears a big/huge diamond ring, I only think,"Oh! this lady must like diamonds. Me, too!!" That's all.
I agree. . .Diamonds do not make people more attractive; they are just very shiny and pretty!
Right on AntiqueShopper!
This thread is reminding me of "Audrey Hepburns Beauty Tips".
"For attractive lips, speak words of kindness.
For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people.
For a slim figure, share your food with the hungry.
For beautiful hair, let a child run his or her fingers through it once a day.
For poise, walk with the knowledge that you never walk alone.
People, even more than things, have to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed and redeemed; never throw out anyone.
Remember, if you ever need a helping hand, you'll find one at the end of each of your arms.
As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands, one for helping yourself, the other for helping others.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries or the way she combs her hair.
The beauty of a woman must be seen from in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides.
The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mode but the true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives the passion that she shows. The beauty of a woman grows with the passing years."
Audrey Hepburn
Temo, I love that paragraph. Thank you for sharing.
Einseine, you speak wisely.
Lily25 & I shared a convo where I stated that, if you're not happy with a 0.25 ct ring, I don't think a 4 or 5 ct will bring you happiness either (well maybe...
, but it will be short-lived)
These crazy upgrades.........someone's ring will always be larger, brighter, nicer, more spectacular, sparkly.......better cut. The question women need to ask themselves is, "are they upgrading to satisfy themselves? Fulfill a promise made some time ago? Because they want to for themselves?"
I get the feeling at times here & other forums (well, one in particular which shall remain nameless), that many of these upgrades are done as a form of competition.......who has the biggest, best...or who can surpass that! And it often leads to resentment, anger, and feelings being hurt as let's face it.....diamonds and women is a hot topic!!!
While I will be the first to admit that I LOVE looking at my diamond, it's not because of its size but rather, what it symbolizes......eternal love.
Einseine, you speak wisely.
Lily25 & I shared a convo where I stated that, if you're not happy with a 0.25 ct ring, I don't think a 4 or 5 ct will bring you happiness either (well maybe...
, but it will be short-lived)These crazy upgrades.........someone's ring will always be larger, brighter, nicer, more spectacular, sparkly.......better cut. The question women need to ask themselves is, "are they upgrading to satisfy themselves? Fulfill a promise made some time ago? Because they want to for themselves?"
I get the feeling at times here & other forums (well, one in particular which shall remain nameless), that many of these upgrades are done as a form of competition.......who has the biggest, best...or who can surpass that! And it often leads to resentment, anger, and feelings being hurt as let's face it.....diamonds and women is a hot topic!!!
While I will be the first to admit that I LOVE looking at my diamond, it's not because of its size but rather, what it symbolizes......eternal love.
I agree. I don't have the largest diamond but it suits my hand and I live quite an active lifestyle and my hands are usually in some form of chemical or make-up so I cannot afford to be wearing a huge honking stone that gets in my way. I love my diamond and my FI has said he would buy me a even bigger one if I wanted in the future but I don't want to ever change it. There is something sweet about always wearing something the person you love gave you.
Expensive watches or jewerlies do not make people look attractive. Attractive people are attractive without blings! (The way you dress might be more important IMHO.) When I see a lady who wears a big/huge diamond ring, I only think,"Oh! this lady must like diamonds. Me, too!!" That's all.
What a great way of putting it, I agree completely!
I wish the pawn shops here got good stuff. Or maybe they do & I'm just too late.
Wear what your comfortable wearing.
Wear what your comfortable wearing.