So I have this mass of waves/curls that I actually really like when it cooperates. The problem is finding something to keep it from inflating like a balloon in the Macys Thanksgiving Day Parade. Most products aren't heavy enough to keep it tame, and the ones that do end up flaking as the day goes on. Since my hair is also very dark, this ends up looking pretty terrible. I end up having to put it in a twist or something by the end of the day. Anyone have any recommendations for a product that can fix this? TIA!