Aaah! I'm resting now. I'm very tired from taking care of 2 kids, a husband and a home all day. To rest and relax I go on tPF (of course) and shop on ebay for deals. So now I need to reward myself. Please help me decide between these bags. I know the shoulder tote is an older style but I have a 3 year old and 6 month old (big bag is good). I have 3 leather ali's (black/brown/whiskey) so I obviously love the ali style. What to do?