Ugh! (That pretty much says it all...lol!) So I'm pretty tired of my 'look'. I have a very fair complexion and natural BLACK hair and eyes. Lately I've been looking in the mirror thinking I need a change...something to soften my look (which sometimes I feel gives off an Elvira vibe, lol). Any suggestions for my do? I have long 'can be wavy or straightened' hair. The last time I tried something different with my hair, I got highlights that looked like crap and I just ended up having the highlights dyed back to my natural color. My friends said I lost my "exotic look" with lighter hair...I'm half Greek and half Puerto Rican. I know it's hard with black hair, but I desperately need a change!!!