Sugar daddy & Luxury spending
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I can't even. I don't think it's worth but I try not to judge someone based on what they do even if I told them about what they are doing is wrong and many people think so it's not like they will listen to me.
Lol. Well that's your husband so technically he is not going anywhereI joke with my husband that he's my sugar daddy since he buys all my bags and I'm a stay at home mom! He just rolls his eyes.I do think that to have a Sugar Daddy in the real sense would be a sad way to live.
Well if that's how you feel that's fine.+1And I can I just add that this thread is an absolute insult? Maybe I've just stumbled upon one too many tacky threads lately, but this is infuriating. I really can't imagine having a more visceral reaction other than someone walking up to me IN AN LV STORE and asking me the same thing. And I can't decide if I chose the wrong premier designer, since I know that none of the other premier designers on the forum would ever have a thread like this, or if, since LV is the working woman's luxury, there are likely to be some occasional trashy or class-less threads. Have fun talking about prostitution, ladies! While we're at it, I have some ideas for upcoming threads:
1. How LV Makes Me Feel Better About My STDs
2. A Speedy for a Quickie
3. BJ or MK?
My mom was telling me something like this. I meet people from all over the place some admit to having a sugar daddy and some don't I'm just curious as to how they got started what made them want a sugar daddy heck I work and I'm paying for college out of pocket and man oh man it is hard I tell you. But, I'm not desperate like that. It would be nice to have someone do things for me from time to time, When I have to finance my own things especially school, etc reality really sets in. But, then again I wonder if these people are doing it for more than financial needs?OP, you seem young and geuinely sweet from your other posts, and curious on the topic. Since there are a lot of young women reading this forum, I just want to tell you that from my experience and from watching my friends irl, your youth, your beauty, and your energies are much better spent on men you genuinely love or could love... there really are a lot of stories on this forum about women meeting their husbands in college, eating nothing but ramen and wearing thrift store clothes for the first ten years (seems like a long time, but they go really quick!), and then becoming wealthy. And if you're looking for love, even if you never become a millionaire, at least if you marry for love you'll always have that. But there is absolutely nothing you can do when your youth goes, and instead of catching a good man while you could, you wasted it chasing sugar daddies who were just going to dump you when they got tired of you and never really cared about you, in sickness and in health, etc. I hope you're getting an indication of how harsh people come down on this subject. Keep in mind that your friends with these sugar daddies will want to find love someday, and will have to be honest about their past loves, and this is exactly how harsh of a reaction they'll get. You've glamorized the topic, but it's not so glamorous to wake up in your 40's alone, with your looks fading, and all you have to show for it is a 20-year-old Alma. OP, you need some new friends. As you get older, you realize the importance of time with someone, and companionship; men are loyal, and the one who was with him when he was a mailroom boy is the one he's going to want to keep when he's a CEO, the one he's going to want to give foot massages to and think of those little things money can't buy that make life happy. I'm going to end positively though, and say that real love and honest hard work worked for me. I'm fairly young but married really, really young, and we did the usual: worked hard and lived cheaply in those beginning years. A lot of women you see out there looking wealthy are older than they look, and started out just as broke as you might be. There's no short-cut that works in the long run. We were just as happy then without a couch as we are now. Not implying that everyone should marry young, but just make sure you're chasing something that matters.
OMG. That would have scared me too. Then he kept trying to force his self on you....
I have plus I know people that have sugar daddies/mommas and I see some what nothing in return so on the other hand could it be all that bad? When some sugar babies say oh the men want nothing in return many people find that hard to believe.
Geesh. I know it maybe hard to get out of once you get caught up in that stuff. I really enjoyed the women speaking about their experiences on the Tyra banks show. You can come a across the videos on youtube. Many people took the crew members behind the scenes. It was any eye opener for me.
People can afford bags in many different ways. Allowance, work, etc. I'm asking because lately a lot of people especially my age are buying huge loads of luxury brand items. Some older as well. Turns out they have sugar daddies/sugar mommas fitting the bill. I'm curious to know if anyone here has had experience with something like that. Or what is there opinion about that.
I see....my only thoughts are that building and maintaining ones own is best...the things one acquires this way is the most enjoyable...and it doesn't cause issues....for the self or others....a case of hard work paying off or good planning or investments...
If someone is receiving something as a trade of time or something more intimate...how enjoyable or worth while would that be...it's a sad thing really...
So, you think it's appropriate to start a thread asking people if they are prostutues and asking them to tell you all about it and give you all the details??
Sorry, I disagree. I think not only is it inappropriate I also think its really none of anyone else's business nor anyone else's if people make these kinds of horrible choices for themselves. I think this thread is odd and inappropriate, and others have chimed in the say the same. It is voyeuristic, disturbing and very strange, not to mention more than a tad tacky.
At least it got moved from our LV forum. Frankly, I think it should be closed. I think if you have questions about the pros and cons of prostitution, the general Internet might be more appropriate. Perhaps you can find some articles about the lives of working girls, or simply ask your friends who you say are doing it.
Since when is asking people if they are prostitutes an appropriate thread topic?
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I am sure there are many online places to read about the how and the who and the why of entering "the life."
Do men and women exchange their [sex, dignity, time, however you want to frame it] for luxury items? Yes, and that has been the case since Year 1. Does it make it relevant to your life, other than idle curiosity? Only you know. But I strongly encourage you to pursue it somewhere other than a shopping forum where you are sure to offend many. This is not the place to research the sex trade--let's not be coy, that's what it is.
Do men and women exchange their [sex, dignity, time, however you want to frame it] for luxury items? Yes, and that has been the case since Year 1. Does it make it relevant to your life, other than idle curiosity? Only you know. But I strongly encourage you to pursue it somewhere other than a shopping forum where you are sure to offend many. This is not the place to research the sex trade--let's not be coy, that's what it is.