Ladies, if any of you own a speedy 30 in mono or damier and/or mono in the 35 or 40 could you ask your husband/boyfriend/other male in the house to hold it and could you take a picture of it? (obviously you don't have to show their faces because if their straight they might be embarresd!) I'm seriously debating getting a larger speedy to use as like a small keepall sort of. I need a bag to bring like one set of clothes to and from shows when I'm performing in a show and/or to stay over one night at a friends and I haven't seen it in person but I think a keepall's a little large but I'm not sure if a speedy on a guy is too gay even for me?!?