As a parent, who has his son 50% of the time (I understand that's not 100%, but it was in the past), it's not hard. Sorry. Being a good parent isn't about worrying or stressing out (although it's definitely involved). It's about teaching them what you can, instilling knowledge, guiding, loving, then letting go. I'm sure once he's 16 or 17 and dating a girl and letting his grades slip, I'll be stressing a bit more, but now, my job is to point him in the right direction and pull back a bit so that he can make his own decisions and suffer the consequences so that when I'm not around to guide him, he'll know what it feels like and know how to handle himself. I don't go to bed every night worried about tomorrow, cause I know that I'm going to be the one who's teaching him to deal with tomorrow. If you want to look to God for guidance, great. I look to myself and what my parents tought me and what I can teach him. Does that make me better than you? No. Does handling your child the way you deem fit make you better than me? No. I'm there when he's scared from a movie. I'm there when he's having girl problems. I'm there when he's having problems with school, and I'm there when he's smiling after he worked through it. I'm there playing kickball with him, and I'm there trying to motivate him and show him how to love life. So, I think I have an idea of what it means to be a good father. To me, that's not hard, it's just something I do. It's what I do cause I love him, and I don't care if it's worth 2 dollars to someone or 2 million. To me, it's priceless, and it's one of the easiest jobs cause those tasks are performed out of love. I don't expect any kind of award or sympathy or attention cause I'm trying to raise my kid right. I don't pretend that raising my son is any more important that every other job that keeps our society running, but it's my job, and I take pride in it. But that also means that I feel good parenting is needed and shouldn't be overlooked. Glamorized, however....no. So please...don't try to come in here and seem like you're some angel sent by god. You're a parent. Do your job, love it, and move on with life.