I sold off all my bal bags this past summer and now I'm starting over.My best friend wants to take the bal plunge and insists on buying me the bag of my choice.We don't know if we should both go new because we're all over the place from new to old.We both want giant hardware.Shes loving the black or cafe in giant gold but i'm the problem(i'm a vet at this and can't make up my mind).I love the Papyrus but i'm afraid its too light.I have no reds,no pinks or blues anymore.I sold off my prize possession (my ocean part time).I LOVE rggh all of a sudden.I'm lost though and I usually know what I want.what is wrong with me?lol.What do you guys do when your all over the place like this?lol.I need inspiration and suggestions