THIS IS A DESPERATE SITUATION...SHOULD I BUY THE ER BLACK MAM ON SALE AT AA? I WONDER WHAT THE LEATHER IS LIKE AFTER SOMEONE WORE IT FOR A WHILE. DID IT GET SMOOSHY OR IS IT STILL REALLY STIFF? I HAVE THE WHITE ER DEVOTE AND THE LEATHER IS VERY STIFF! I WANT TO BUY THIS AS A GIFT FOR MY DD. I HAVE LESS THAN 3 HOURS TO DECIDE.