ok here's the thing! i had my mind all made up on the large bleecker tote in tan... i went to the boutique to order her and low and behold i see the extra large zoe in black and i a instantly in love....but i already have a black duffle style bag by b.makowski with nickel harware and the black zoe has gold....i love the tan on the bleecker tote but i'm crazy about the funkiness of the zoe and her leather is so soft and her lining is gorgeous plus i'm tall so she hangs just right on me please help me....