Songs that Heal

Here are my two favorite "therapy" songs :o)

Justin Timberlake "Never Again" - It's just a very clean, direct, and emotional song which makes me love it even more.

Kelly Clarkson "Behind These Hazel Eyes" - oh so angry = oh so perfect ;)
 
Favorite of all times. Has helped me through many a rough nights.

Heart of the matter by Don Henley

I got the call today, I didn't wanna hear
But I knew that it would come
An old true friend of ours was talkin' on the phone
She said you found someone
And I thought of all the bad luck,
And the struggles we went through
And how I lost me and you lost you
What are these voices outside love's open door
Make us throw off our contentment
And beg for something more?

I'm learning to live without you now
But I miss you sometimes
The more I know, the less I understand
All the things I thought I knew, I'm learning again
I've been tryin' to get down to the Heart of the Matter
But my will gets weak
And my thoughts seem to scatter
But I think it's about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me anymore

These times are so uncertain
There's a yearning undefined
...People filled with rage
We all need a little tenderness
How can love survive in such a graceless age
The trust and self-assurance that can lead to happiness
They're the very things we kill, I guess
Pride and competition cannot fill these empty arms
And the work I put between us,
Doesn't keep me warm

I'm learning to live without you now
But I miss you, Baby
The more I know, the less I understand
All the things I thought I figured out, I have to learn again
I've been tryin' to get down to the Heart of the Matter
But everything changes
And my friends seem to scatter
But I think it's about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me anymore

There are people in your life who've come and gone
They let you down and hurt your pride
Better put it all behind you; life goes on
You keep carrin' that anger, it'll eat you inside

I've been tryin' to get down to the Heart of the Matter
But my will gets weak
And my thoughts seem to scatter
But I think it's about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me anymore

I've been tryin' to get down to the Heart of the Matter
Because the flesh will get weak
And the ashes will scatter
So I'm thinkin' about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me anymore​
 
Survivor - Destiny's CHild

Now that you're out of my life
I'm so much better
You thought that I'd be weak without you
But I'm stronger
You thought that I'd be broke without you
But I'm richer
You thought that I'd be sad without you
I laugh harder
You thought I wouldn't grow without you
Now I'm wiser
Though that I'd be helpless without you
But I'm smarter
You thought that I'd be stressed without you
But I'm chillin'
You thought I wouldn't sell without you
Sold 9 million

I'm a survivor (What?)
I'm not gon give up (What?
) I'm not gon stop (What?)
I'm gon work harder (What?)
I'm a survivor (What?)
I'm gonna make it (What?)
I will survive (What?)
Keep on survivin' (What?)

I'm a survivor (What?)
I'm not gon give up (What?)
I'm not gon stop (What?)
I'm gon work harder (What?)
I'm a survivor (What?)
I'm gonna make it (What?)
I will survive (What?)
Keep on survivin' (What?)

Thought I couldn't breathe without
I'm inhaling
You thought I couldn't see without you
Perfect vision
You thought I couldn't last without you
But I'm lastin'
You thought that I would die without you
But I'm livin'
Thought that I would fail without you
But I'm on top
Thought it would be over by now
But it won't stop
Thought that I would self destruct
But I'm still here
Even in my years to come
I'm still gon be here

I'm a survivor (What?)
I'm not gon give up (What?)
I'm not gon stop (What?)
I'm gon work harder (What?)
I'm a survivor (What?)
I'm gonna make it (What?)
I will survive (What?)
Keep on survivin' (What?)

I'm a survivor (What?)
I'm not gon give up (What?)
I'm not gon stop (What?)
I'm gon work harder (What?)
I'm a survivor (What?)
I'm gonna make it (What?)
I will survive (What?)
Keep on survivin' (What?)

I'm wishin' you the best
Pray that you are blessed
Bring much success, no stress, and lots of happiness
(I'm better than that)
I'm not gon blast you on the radio
(I'm better than that)
I'm not gon lie on you and your family
(I'm better than that)
I'm not gon hate on you in the magazines
('m better than that)
I'm not gon compromise my Christianity
(I'm better than that)
You know I'm not gon diss you on the Internet
Cause my mama taught me better than that

I'm a survivor (What?)
I'm not gon give up (What?)
I'm not gon stop (What?)
I'm gon work harder (What?)
I'm a survivor (What?)
I'm gonna make it (What?)
I will survive (What?)
Keep on survivin' (What?)

I'm a survivor (What?)
I'm not gon give up (What?)
I'm not gon stop (What?)
I'm gon work harder (What?)
I'm a survivor (What?)
I'm gonna make it (What?)
I will survive (What?)
Keep on survivin' (What?)

(Beyonce)
Oh (oh) oh (oh)...

After of all of the darkness and sadness
Soon comes happiness
If I surround my self with positive things
I'll gain prosperity

I'm a survivor (What?)
I'm not gon give up (What?)
I'm not gon stop (What?)
I'm gon work harder (What?)
I'm a survivor (What?)
I'm gonna make it (What?)
I will survive (What?)
Keep on survivin' (What?)
 
Break up:
Beyonce - Me, Myself and I
Destiny's child - Emotions
Brian Mcknight- 6,8,12
Dixie Chicks- Without you
Faith Hill- Cry
Joss Stone - You had me
Leann Rimes - Soon
Mariah Carey - My All
Matchbox 20 - If you're gone
Natalie- Torn
Shakira - Poem to a horse
Shania Twain- It only hurts when I'm breathing
Shania Twain - Nah!
Sheryl Crow - The first cut is the deepest
Stacie orrico - Stuck
 
ok i have a few songs too.. mariah carey ALL!!!
gloria gaynor - I will survive
come on eileen ( dont know who sings it)

does anyone know the song. i know this is weird but it goes something like. ( its slow and old)

whyyyy did you do what you do when you did wha tyou did to me...
why did you say what you said when you said what you said to me..

hhahah iknow its not alot to go one but maybe u guys will get it..
teehee
 
Baby Boo said:
ok i have a few songs too.. mariah carey ALL!!!
gloria gaynor - I will survive
come on eileen ( dont know who sings it)

does anyone know the song. i know this is weird but it goes something like. ( its slow and old)

whyyyy did you do what you do when you did wha tyou did to me...
why did you say what you said when you said what you said to me..

hhahah iknow its not alot to go one but maybe u guys will get it..
teehee

Come on Eilene is by Dexie's Midnight Runners=)

Is this the second one you are thinking of?
I don' t mind
Why don't you what you do
WHen you did what you did to me
Love was so good that it filled up all my needs
I was crazy for you
You were crazy for me

How could something so right go so wrong
My love, sweet love

Why don't you say what you say
When you say what you said anymore
Your eyes couldn't lie, so long goodbye
Close the door
I was crazy for you
You were crazy for me

Tell me something I didn't do

Why did someone else have to pull you throught
Did they steal you away like a thief in the night
love like this must take flight

why don't they play what they played
On the nights you danced with me
Remember the one we made love to endlessly
I was crazy for you
You were crazy for me

Why don't you what you do when you did what you did to me
Do what you do when you did what you did to me
Do what you do when you did what you did to me
Do what you do when you did what you did to me

apparently that was Jermaine Jackson?
 
Coldplaylover said:
I found that listening to any music or songs made me feel worse if I was already depressed so I switched to talk radio!!!!!

Same here! I switched to books on CD. It's kind of funny, but it seems like when I am more upset I tend to listen to more murder/mysteries. Maybe that's more scary than funny....:shocked:
 
When I need an instant "feel better" -don´t laugh at me, I never told anyone- I put Abba "Abba Gold", sometimes it´s like the soundtrack of my life.....
When I need to think over these painfull things I put :
The Cardigans "Erase and Rewind" , and the whole Gran Turismo album
Greenday "Boulevard of broken dreams
Massive Attack "man next door" over and over again....
 
It was September 11. I was absolutely BEDRAGGLED by the end of the day. I was SICK of seeing video clips of the Twin Towers falling. I was SICK of worrying about my dad (in my irrational fear, I thought if they were attacking government buildings, and if Lincoln Lab was considered a government building . . . you know where this is going . . . ). I was REALLY missing my grandmother who died earlier that summer. I went back to my dorm and sat outside on the grass, listening to music.

When Proud by Heather Small started, I lay back in the grass. There were clouds, but there were no birds in the sky that day. All of a sudden, when the song climaxed into the chorus, it seemed like a million little birds flew over my head. (Chickadees, or something. I'm normally afraid of big birds, but these were okay.) It seemed like my grandmother sent those birds to me to somehow tell me everything was going to be all right.


Proud by Heather Small
I look into the window of my mind
Reflections of the fears I know I've left behind
I step out of the ordinary
I can feel my soul ascending
I am on my way
Can't stop me now
And you can do the same

What have you done today to make you feel proud?
It's never too late to try
What have you done today to make you feel proud?
You could be so many people
If you make that break for freedom
What have you done today to make you feel proud?

Still so many answers I don't know
Realise that to question is how we grow
So I step out of the ordinary
I can feel my soul ascending
I am on my way
Can't stop me now
And you can do the same

What have you done today to make you feel proud?
It's never too late to try
What have you done today to make you feel proud?
You could be so many people
If you make that break for freedom
What have you done today to make you feel proud?

We need a change
Do it today
I can feel my spirit rising
We need a change
So do it today
'Cause I can see a clear horizon

What have you done today to make you feel proud?
So what have you done today to make you feel proud?
'Cause you could be so many people
If you make that break for freedom
So what have you done today to make you feel proud?
What have you done today to make you feel proud?
What have you done today
You could be so many people?
Just make that break for freedom
So what have you done today to make you feel proud?
 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HB4bYhE8Nf0&search=anouk%20michel

Anouk's Michel (a Dutch singer), the video is very simple but the words were right on when it was the end of my 6-year relationship and found out he was with her. It is an old song and I have moved on and married now, but everytime I hear this song, it brings me back to the time then. I remember I played this song and sang my heart out over and over again. It helped especially when you can't cry but just have this pain in your heart and lump in your throat. It might not apply to you, it's a nice song nevertheless.