Hi all, My midnight pewter matinee just arrived and I'm a little disappointed. I find the leather a little too stiff for my liking, I remember reading in some thread about how the leather becomes "smooshier" over time... could someone help by posting pictures of the midnight/pewter matinee after they've used it? TIA. Would like to check out how much softer the leather gets.. if not, I may have to let it go. It's one beautiful bag, but may not be suitable for me.