My friend is a adult woman who lives alone in a villa attached to another villa on a dead end street. About 100 villas on the street. Well for the 3rd time she has found cigarette butts on the grass outside her bedroom window. This is freaking her out to think someone may be watching her at night. She sleeps with the TV on so there is always some light in her room. It is a ground floor villa. She has shutters and curtains and feels there is no way a person can look in, but I think unless you overlap the curtains it might be possible. She has a few floodlights on her villa and once had the front ones unscrewed so they did not go on. There is a creepy guy who moved in across the street that she has seen out on his driveway at 12:--=1:00 AM when she went out to take her garbage to the curb. She always felt he was strange....... So she doesn't know what to do. She has a locked gate *fence in the front) so nobody can get to her front door or the back yard (fenced in yard). But the thought that someone is standing at her window is freaking her out. Has anyone had this happen and what did you do? She is getting new flood lights put up higher on her villa so nobody can get to them. I told her to be extra careful going in and out of her house. She is going thru alot in her life and this is really adding stress because she now has to think "who is doing this". She also had some crank calls but did not think anything of them.