i'm fuming with anger right now. my bf and i have been doing the long distance thing after we graduated from college 2 years ago. he's living in the south because of work and i'm in the tri-state area because i'm applying to grad school. we don't see each other very often... but since i am more flexible, i did most of the traveling in the past. i was okay with doing most of the traveling, but lately i've been getting irritated over the sitation. he doesn't even offer to visit and expects me to do all the traveling!!! (we split the cost.) what really drove me over the edge was for xmas this year, he said that he's going to buy me a plane ticket so i can visit him at his parents house while he's there for his family holiday thing. while i enjoy seeing him, this is NOT a gift for me. it's a gift for us at his convinence. on top of that, i don't like going to his parents house because i don't want to see his relatives. (i really don't like meeting family members. it's just my thing.) i told him that i won't go on the plane if he buys me the ticket but he really believes that i will use it if he buys it for me?!? he's seriously just going to waste his money because i won't go. i'm even thinking about ending our almost 6 year relationship because i can't believe he has the audacity to get me something i am really against. (i was telling him on the phone for over 5 minutes "i won't go" to which he responded "yes you will.") i guess the bottom line is, i'm sick of doing all the traveling, i REALLY don't want to see his family/relatives, and he's trying to make me do something i really don't want to. am i overreacting? will he always be like this? sorry for the long rant, i just needed to let it out.