i had a listing on ebay and this lady used BIN on my auction about like 20 mins after i listed. She had 0 feedback when she bid on my item. But as of today, she has 19 positives. i find that her feedback received was kinda shady too, as different sellers were leaving her the same exact feedback! e.g. Seller A: Hope to deal with you again. Thank you. Feb-04-07 15:13 Seller B: Hope to deal with you again. Thank you. Feb-04-07 15:17 Seller C: Quick response and fast payment. Perfect! THANKS!! Feb-04-07 15:23 Seller D: Quick response and fast payment. Perfect! THANKS!! Feb-04-07 15:29 Feedback appeared one after another, all from different sellers selling CD's Later on, she BIN'ed about like 40 something items (tons of CD's and dooney bags) over the course of 2 days. After i send an invoice (giving her benefit of doubt), she emailed me saying she's going to pay today. And today she send me this email after i sent a reminder, and stating i only shipped to confirmed paypal address- "Hello, I am so sorry but I have had a tragedy happen in my family...my father passed away...I will not be able to pay fr or this due to the fact I have to fly to CA. to be with my mom and the rest of my family. I am so sorry, I don't know what else to tell you but the truth! If you feel the need to leave negative because of this I will understand. I just cannot help it. Thank you, D.H." i'm trying to be sympathetic and all, but i've heard about these stories many times. i certainly will give her a negative, but i would really HATE it if she gave retaliatory feedback. She was still buying stuff as of yesterday. It sucks that i have to wait 7 days to file for NPB. i listed the bag with hopes that i can sell it by Valentine's day. So annoyed right now Any advice what to do at this point? PM me if you want the bidder's ebay ID.