Am I out of the norm here, or do more people pay immediately when they win something on eBay?? I am getting soooo sick of people winning and then just disappearing! I have to rant, because I have just had it!! Seriously, should I be worried when people hit Buy It Now and then you don't hear from them?? Am I an idiot for not making it immediate payment? It's OK, I know it was a stupid thing to do Someone bought a Balenciaga money wallet from me with BIN and there were 18 people watching! I'm just frustrated because I want the cash now because there's a purse I want and now I'm afraid I'm going to have to relist it. AGAIN! Plus, I had a lot of baby clothes that are still being unpaid, and last week I had to report another Unpaid. I don't sell very much, that's what makes it worse. So, who usually pays immediately? Does anyone wait for a few days??