I want a Cambon tote, but.....can't find the brown, don't like that it is so highly faked, so I'm thinking about a Reporter. I know they come in small & large. Anyone have any comments about the sizes? I think the large one may be TOO big (based on the measurements), but sometimes it's hard to tell without having the bag in front of you. Is it bulky to wear on the shoulder (especially if you are carrying a 2 year old who has recently decided that his legs would rather not walk)?