My DH is quitting smoking again after picking it up again (he went without for almost a year, then started back up when work got too stressful). Tonight he asked me if I would go get him a cigar (I always used to because he doesn't drive). I know he is feeling bad from the withdrawl, but I've vowed to no longer be an enabler, so I told him no. He seems so uncomfortable right now, and it's hard for me to see him having such a hard time, but I feel like I have to stand my ground. He's had the "quit-smoking" lozenges but says they don't help much. He is usually so lively, but right now he is sitting at his computer all quiet and fidgety, and it's getting tough to look at. Is there any way I can make him feel better?