I hope I can explain this in a way you will understand. Let me start with some backround (this may get long). In October 2005, I went to San Diego, CA for my cousin Jon's wedding. It was supposed to be a fun time but ended really badly. After the wedding reception, most of the family gathered at my Uncle Harry's house since that's where most of the family was staying. I was there and was with my younger cousins in a bedroom in the house just playing on the computer. I was bored and they had a piano in the living room so I decided to go and check it out. The living room is very close to the kitchen in the house. My Uncle Harry had a lot of alcohol in his system and he was sitting at the table with my cousin Cyrus. My Uncle started saying in a very angry tone, "YOU KNOW WHAT, YOUR UNCLE MAR IS STUPID." I was thinking, "Did he just say that?" Mar is my dad's nickname. I thought I heard wrong but he kept repeating it over and over and over really angrily. My dad didn't do anything to him and I didn't think it was fair of him to call my father stupid. I stood up from the piano and confronted my uncle just asking him about what he just said. He basically went like this to me: Thankfully my cousin Cyrus was there to protect me because I really felt threatened at this point. I just went back to the room where my younger cousins were and cried my eyes out. It wasn't fair to me that my uncle was calling my dad stupid. It was just a mess. Now this coming June 16th, my cousin Jon's daugther, Mikayla will be having her 1st birthday in San Diego, CA. My mom really wants to go but that means the chance of running into my uncle. I haven't spoken to him ever since. I'd really like to see Mikayla and take a trip to Southern Cali since it's the summer and so I can shop for another bag but I'm just not sure. What do y'all think?