OK, a long time ago I wrote a thread about my boyfriend's good friend who's a girl. He rarely sees her, but there are occasions where she calls him to hang out. She called him today about her birthday on Sunday and that she wanted him to go. Here is the run down of why me and her don't mix: She likes to judge and put input on our relationship when she's not asked. She acts as if she knows what's best, when she has no inclination of our relationship whatsoever. She's friends with his ex of almost 5 years. THIS IS THE BIG ONE: Her sister and I had a really huge blow up. Her sister wanted to buy my old car from me, she offered 3000 LESS than my asking price - because she thought it was being fair. I checked Kelly Blue Book, got the car inspected, everything was great. The trade-in value was even higher than what she was asking. I declined her offer and she went on a rampage and basically was screaming at me at the top of her lungs "You're a B***H!! your car is a piece of ____" basically anything you can imagine that she would've said she said to me because I wouldn't let go of the car for that price. AT the time she was 24 and I was 18. After she basically hung up on me, she emailed me again saying how useless the car is, and how much of a B***H and a scammer because I was asking for the blue book price (????). I basically didn't say anything to her, because I didn't want to get into a big fight. After a few hours, she emailed me again and offer another 200$. I again declined it and she got mad, and I basically told her off. I said, you know what, you're immature, you're 24 and you can't even get the point across to a 18 year old without using profanity. Can you not talk like a civilized adult? She basically felt as if I was "looking down on her" and she just shut up. After a few weeks, I was still selling my car (I wanted to wait last minute before I traded it in and it was a convertible and at that time it was still cold here). And I just declined her offer again and again. So, Of course I think it's all over and done with. I mean, it's been MONTHS since it's happened and she bought a new car, and I sold my car and bought a new one and it's not a big deal anymore. I didn't do anything wrong. I showed the car, she liked it, she offered, wasn't close to my asking price, and I declined so she didn't buy. I thought (even though her sister had a huge blow up on me,) that it was over and done with. So today when (let's call her) Cindy called my bf to invite him, she asked him if I would be joining him. And he said, well yeah, but technically it's up to you and how much space you have. And she said no, it's fine if she's coming, but just to let you know, my sister is going to be there. As if, it's still going on. I feel as if I'm back in high school. My bf is 3.5 years older than I and so is all of his friends and his friend's sister is about 5 years older than me, yet I feel like I have to "watch my back" because she won't be able to calm her temper when she sees me because I didn't bend over and let her buy my car for dirt. What should I do? My bf really wants me to go because it's his friend's birthday and he wants me to get along with his friends too. His other friends I get along with, just not so much her anymore.