Oh, Arnott, I feel your pain, or indecision, or second thoughts about the Roxbury. It is such a beautiful bag, especially in Pomme. I bought one and after having it for 5 days, I knew I couldn't make it work for me because I wanted an everyday bag to add to my bag rotation. It only fit my wallet, glass case, and lipstick without the snaps unsnapping it open.
If I needed an evening bag or a special occasion bag, I would definitely have kept the Roxbury for sure. I decided to get the Pomme Brentwood instead.
The Aurelia MM is a gorgeous bag in both black and white. The only problem I have with the Aurelia is the open top --- I feel insecure with a bag that has an open top. Just my preference. I envy others who can carry these open-top bags without a problem!
Think about what you really want the Roxbury for. If you can use it as an everyday bag that will fit your daily essentials, I say go for it, girl!!!! If you need a special occasion/evening type bag, then go for it, girl!! If you can't use it for what you envisioned yourself using it for, then you may have to exchange it for something else that you really really love.
Good luck!!!