Here's the story,
So, I guess it was my fault at first. I saw a wonderful Dior bag on ebay with best offer option. my heart beat so hard that I immediately make an offer (mistake #1). Then, I was just wondering if the seller accept it, then it would create a binding contract between us before I'm sure that the bag is authentic. So, I made a request for authentication on Purse Forum here, retracted offer, and send seller a note explaining my retraction of offer, with a huge apologie, and that I am waiting for it to be authenticate.
It came out to be authentic. Ok, I requested a picture of the owner holding the bag (on her left arm, I think this make her feels ridiculous?!). But she still sent me the pictures, and asked if I wanted more pictures. I answered her: "No. I'm good [with these]. Thank you'.
Then, I offer her a price, she declined it. Okay.
I offered her a higher price.
Then, she sent me a note asking 'are you gonna retract this time'.
I answer 'No, I'm not [retracting]'.
She declined it again, and sending me a big note. 'Not professional at all after my accommondation. You should not making an offer to item you're not serious in buying.' I'm like, no?!.
I think may be because i retracted offer the first time, so that she thinks I'm not interested in buying. But I did explain the fact to her, and we exchanged info after that (this make me think she forget about that). I made an offer to her, and she was the one who declined it. If she thinks it's too low (90$ difference to BIN, I just want a whole number), she can always counter offer.
I'm not sweating over a 90$ difference. I really want that item now that I will pay for it immediately (I have 0 negative feedback as buyer). But the fact that she's telling me that somewhat I'm a liar bumps me alot. Should I just ignore it and just buy my bag anyway, or should I let this transaction go?
Thank you very much lady for listening to me. I'm not accusing the seller, nor that I'm claiming I am completely innocent in this matter. But I'm very sensitive to these things...:rain::cry:
So, I guess it was my fault at first. I saw a wonderful Dior bag on ebay with best offer option. my heart beat so hard that I immediately make an offer (mistake #1). Then, I was just wondering if the seller accept it, then it would create a binding contract between us before I'm sure that the bag is authentic. So, I made a request for authentication on Purse Forum here, retracted offer, and send seller a note explaining my retraction of offer, with a huge apologie, and that I am waiting for it to be authenticate.
It came out to be authentic. Ok, I requested a picture of the owner holding the bag (on her left arm, I think this make her feels ridiculous?!). But she still sent me the pictures, and asked if I wanted more pictures. I answered her: "No. I'm good [with these]. Thank you'.
Then, I offer her a price, she declined it. Okay.
I offered her a higher price.
Then, she sent me a note asking 'are you gonna retract this time'.
I answer 'No, I'm not [retracting]'.
She declined it again, and sending me a big note. 'Not professional at all after my accommondation. You should not making an offer to item you're not serious in buying.' I'm like, no?!.
I think may be because i retracted offer the first time, so that she thinks I'm not interested in buying. But I did explain the fact to her, and we exchanged info after that (this make me think she forget about that). I made an offer to her, and she was the one who declined it. If she thinks it's too low (90$ difference to BIN, I just want a whole number), she can always counter offer.
I'm not sweating over a 90$ difference. I really want that item now that I will pay for it immediately (I have 0 negative feedback as buyer). But the fact that she's telling me that somewhat I'm a liar bumps me alot. Should I just ignore it and just buy my bag anyway, or should I let this transaction go?
Thank you very much lady for listening to me. I'm not accusing the seller, nor that I'm claiming I am completely innocent in this matter. But I'm very sensitive to these things...:rain::cry: