just a question, i bought a bag from a seller and returned because i found scratches on the bag that was not mentioned when i bought it (hence why i returned it, was not happy). Would it be ok for me to ask for a return for the charges? or is it just part of the chances you take for bidding on ebay? can i get the charges back or no? btw she said she couldn't return the money for it, i'm just curious because i understand why i could not recived the money back, BUT if i knew there was scratches on the bag i wouldn't have purchased it in the first place,....do you guys understand my situation? thanks!